refactor: 代码审查修复 — 错误边界、DRY抽取、测试修复、合规性改进

- P1: server.ts 统一错误边界 (withErrorHandler + AppError)，修复 3 个失败/卡死测试
- P2: db 层 wrap/paginateQuery 抽取，前端 handleResponse 抽取，parseIdFromUrl 抽取
- P3: middleware 验证消息中文化，Flex→Space 替换
- P0: docs/development/README.md 新增已知设计决策章节
- P3-11 setup 拆分已尝试回退（@testing-library/react preload 依赖无法拆分）
- P3-13 config 层测试从本次变更移除

src/server/middleware/index.ts

@@ -0,0 +1,2 @@
+export { AppError, withErrorHandler } from "./error-handler";
+export { validateIdParam, validatePagination, validateTimeRange } from "./validate";